Emotional Guidance
This section speaks to the heart of what matters most: your relationships, your memories, and the legacy of who you are—not just what you owned or arranged. If you want to ensure the people you care about are left with peace, not pain, and clarity, not confusion, this is where to start.
These aren’t legal tasks or financial admin—they’re acts of kindness, reflection, and closure. You don’t need to do them all at once, and some will feel more natural than others, but the emotional impact of this preparation is lasting.
You are also welcome to print my free Death Proofing Master Checklist that accompanies this section, which lists all the practical, financial and administrative activities that you might wish to complete.
Here’s a summary of what’s in each emotional area (click the links to dive deeper):
Assuming you've already addressed the 'Practical' and 'Financial' sections then this is the next place for you to continue your 'death-proofing'. If you're feeling a bit unsure, why not download our free master checklist (excel format) which provides a helpful summary of all areas to consider, with helpful columns including for you to capture specifics. You can then also store this and/or give to relatives should anything happen to you.
In terms of the emotional steps, here's a summary of why they're useful (click on the links to go the specific, detailed page).
Reflect and Reconcile
Take time to reflect on your life, share your thoughts, and speak openly with loved ones. Saying thank you, I love you, I’m sorry—or even goodbye—can bring deep comfort and leave lasting peace.
Funeral and Memorial
Decide how you’d like to be remembered and celebrated. Whether quiet or quirky, it’s your final goodbye—shaped by you. Leaving guidance takes the pressure off your loved ones when they need it most.
Memories and Messages
Capture what truly matters—your voice, your stories, your values. Whether it’s a photo album, a video, or a letter to your grandchildren, these messages become your most meaningful legacy.
Become an Organ Donor (OPTIONAL)
It’s easy to select being an organ donor or you can make your family aware of your wishes to do this.